HUBUNGAN KECERDASAN EMOSIONAL DAN HARGA DIRI DENGAN KEBAHAGIAAN PADA REMAJA
Tesis Untuk memenuhi sebagian persyaratan mencapai derajat Magister Sains Psikologi
Diajukan oleh Achmad Faisal NIM 201210440211013
MAGISTER SAINS PSIKOLOGI UNIVERSITAS MUHAMMADIYAH MALANG 2014
KATA PENGANTAR
Puji syukur Alhamdulillah senantiasa Penulis ucapkan atas kehadirat Allah SWT yang telah melimpahkan Rahmat, taufik serta Hidayah-Nya sehingga Penulis akhirnya dapat menyelesaikan Tesis yang berjudul, “Hubungan kecerdasan emosional dan harga diri dengan kebahagiaan” meskipun dengann bentuk yang sederhana. Shalawat serta salam semoga tetap tercurah kepada Nabi Besar Muhammad saw. Penulis sadar bahwa dalam penyusunan tugas ini tidak lepas dari bimbingan dan bantuan berbagai pihak. Oleh karena itu, dalam kesempatan ini ucapkan terima kasih Penulis sampaikan kepada: 1. Dr. Muhadjir Effendi, MAP selaku Rektor Universitas Muhammadiyah Malang. 2. Dr. Latipun, M. Kes. Selaku Direktur Program Pasca Sarjana Universitas Muhammadiyah Malang. 3. Ibu Dra. Iswinarti, M. Si. Selaku ketua Program Studi Magister Psikologi. 4. Ibu Dr. Diah Karmiyati, Psi. Selaku dosen pembimbing I, terima kasih atas bimbingan dan saran-saran yang bermanfaat selama penyusunan tesis ini dan telah banyak memberikan bantuan selama menjadi mahasiswa di Universitas Muhammadiyah Malang. 5. Bapak Yudi Suharsono, M. Si., Psi. Selaku dosen pembimbing II, terima kasih atas bimbingan dan saran-saran yang bermanfaat selama penyusunan tesis ini 6. Para dosen penguji yang telah memberikan masukan-masukan membangun demi kesempurnaan karya tulis ini. 7. Para dosen dan pembina mata kuliah serta para staf administrasi di lingkungan program Pascasarjana Universitas Muhammadiyah Malang atas layanan dan fasilitas yang diberikan selama perkuliahan. 8. SMAN 6 Banjarmasin yang telah mengizinkan peneliti melakukan penelitiannya disana. 9. Para subjek yang berpartisipasi dalam penelitian
10. Orang Tua Ibu Hj. Yusnani dan bapak H. Sabran tercinta atas doanya yang tak pernah putus untuk Penulis. 11. Teman-teman
magister
Sains
Psikologi
angkatan
2012
Universitas
Muhammadiyah Malang. 12. Semua pihak yang telah membantu dalam penyelesaian tesis ini yang tidak dapat disebutkan satu per satu. Penulis juga tidak luput dari kesalahan dan menyadari bahwa karya tulis ini masih jauh dari sempurna. Oleh karena itu, kritik dan saran dari pembaca yang bersifat membangun senantiasa Penulis harapkan. Akhirnya Penulis berharap di balik kurang sempurnanya karya ini dapat ditemukan sesuatu yang dapat bermanfaat bagi pembaca dan Penulis secara pribadi. -Amin-
Malang, 21 Oktober 2014
Penulis
DAFTAR ISI LEMBAR PERSETUJUAN .............................................................................
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LEMBAR PENGESAHAN ...............................................................................
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LEMBAR PERNYATAAN ...............................................................................
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KATA PENGANTAR .......................................................................................
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DAFTAR ISI ......................................................................................................
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DAFTAR TABEL ...............................................................................................
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ABSTRAKSI .......................................................................................................
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ABSTRACT ........................................................................................................
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PENDAHULUAN ...............................................................................................
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LATAR BELAKANG ........................................................................................
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KAJIAN TEORI Kebahagiaan ............................................................................................
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Hubungan kecerdasan emosional dengan kebahagian .............................
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Hubungan harga diri dengan kebahagian ................................................
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METODE Desain Penelitian .....................................................................................
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Subjek Penelitian .....................................................................................
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Instrumen Penelitian ................................................................................
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Analisis Data ...........................................................................................
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HASIL DAN PEMBAHASAN Hasil .........................................................................................................
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Pembahasan .............................................................................................
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KESIMPULAN DAN REKOMENDASI Kesimpulan ..............................................................................................
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Rekomendasi ............................................................................................
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DAFTAR PUSTAKA .........................................................................................
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INDEKS ISI..........................................................................................................
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LAMPIRAN..........................................................................................................
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DAFTAR TABEL Tabel 1 : Karakteristik demografis subjek ........................................................
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Tabel 2
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: Deskripsi statistik variabel kecerdasaan emosional, harga diri, dan kebahagiaan
Tabel 3
: Uji signifikansi simultan (Uji statistik F)
Tabel 4 : Hubungan Kecerdasaan emosional dengan kebahagiaan, hubungan harga diri dengan kebahagiaan ..........................................................
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